I agree. It's totally overstigmatized when men protect themselves or do what's right for their emotions. On the other hand, a man hitting a woman not out of self defense isn't ok.
When a man leaves dumps a woman he is a monster, when a woman leaves a man, she is moving on.
When a man hits a woman he is a monster, when a woman hits a man she is being brave. Something.... Is a foot 🦶