Fishing spider (because I like looking at it still)

Awww!
do you know if it's a girl or a boy?

Females are usually 50 times bigger than males so female

note: female spiders eat males after mating

Most of them don’t, but the black widow definitely does. And even then it’s only a few specific species of black widow.

OOO that's cool ^^

it's not a human

Ok but I can ask if the spider is a female or a male bc I am interested

ok but don't say "girl or boy"

Girl or boy

i wasn't talking to you

girl or boy

don't say "girl or boy" when asking for the gender of a non-human creature

ok

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