I see… First of all, being bi doesn’t mean you’re always horny, but I could see why you’d think that, being bi just means you’re attracted to both genders, not that you necessarily are attracted to more people than any straight/gay person. For the second thing, try to think of it this way: are you trying to be an attention seeker? The answer should be no, otherwise you’re not actually bi. For the last thing, make sure you try to make sure they know if you have a lean for females, that way they don’t see you as a straight person who sometimes likes the same sex