I'm dearly sorry that you have to deal with that :(
I, too, have to deal with such a father, whom of which constantly dead-names and misgenders me, all without any remorse. He also doesn't care about anybody else's pronouns and, instead, often mocks genders, especially non-binary and genderfluid (just last night, I made a joke and, in it, I said, "Excuse me, sir." In response, and like the dick he is, he just said, "ExCusE mE, I IdEnTiFy As a nON-BiNaRY fLuiD!!!! 😤😤😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬😠😠👿👿👿" Like, uh- That's not even how it works??? Like, damn- Four years of college and you still the dumbest hoe I know 🙄✋ He once even called me a "Freak of Nature" for being gay and trans, so, uh- That kinda hurted me doe-).
Don't worry though, you won't have to live with your father forever. Besides, everybody dies eventually 😊