Telling my first romantic crush I’m demiro

Wow
You're lucky

Did you have a bad experience or something?

Yes XD

Good job! Proud of you (◕‿◕)

Why is this marked sus?

Ur smart! Tbh, there are very few real creeps on this site. On discord there is just no moderation

I’ve heard of Jeffery and Danny. And they’re super infamous and pretty dumb about it

Reaper

Even Reaper’s pretty obvious about their age, by actively telling us he’s married, has a daughter, and can drink

And openly defends MAPs

Defends them how? As in the “we shouldn’t harass them if they are actively taking steps to prevent acting on it like going to therapy and staying away from minors” or the “they’re totally ok, age is just a number” crap

Whenever someone goes and criticizes any part of MAP they defend it.
Besides the fact they have also given out terrible advice, like encouraging people online meeting irl. They shouldn’t act like teens are adults, teens have maturing brains and are targets for online predators.
They have passed this off as DID, however I have been learning more about DID recently and it really isn’t a good excuse. Unless they have a way to stop whatever perverted alter they have from doing stuff like that, or at least denounce it when they front again they shouldn’t be in a predominately teen stream.
As an adult in a teen they have a responsibility to act like one.

Passing it off as a perverted alter on DID? Sounds like those TikTok girls. And yeah, I’ve seen enough episodes of “to catch a predator” to know how people can be victims of that stuff. I myself was groomed by my former science teacher. Frankly, Reaper’s advice regarding parts of my relationship seems more like an adult trying to get off on kids being together than someone with similar experiences giving advice. And usually, when an alter in someone with DID does something bad, the other alters will apologize and explain to said alter why it was wrong.

Exactly
I’ve learned more because one of my friends has DID (I met them at the start of the school year) and whenever this one alter is rude the next alter to front apologizes

One of the things that struck me as suspicious about Reaper was that right after I told you guys I was gynesexual, they made a post specifically pandering to gynesexuals. Especially since they aren’t one themselves. It didn’t seem odd at first, but after learning about what happened with that science teacher, it did seem a little weird after the fact, y’know. And usually the next alter to front does apologize and stuff, so why don’t Reaper’s alters?

Either all of their alters are perverts or they don’t have DID.
They don’t act like they have DID, with my friend there are very distinct personality differences between alters. I can tell the different alters apart from behavior alone

Like Jeffrey, who posts erotic photos of himself on random streams

Cause I enjoy mod abuse

Ok. Did you like this/think it was wholesome?

Iffy, since it was online and I’ve been on discord long enough to know that pedos exist everywhere, but I trust your judgment

(So yes)

If this person is a pedo, they have to be very elaborate

Discord is scary. I personally have carried out plots that took months or more in which I stood in character for each and every message.

I can assure you that I'm not a 50 year old man

That sounds like something a 50 year old man would say (but I still believe you)

So basically, all of them ARE very elaborate

The crazy ones, yes. The majority? Just creeps.

You can tell which ones are creeps pretty fast tho

This person hasn’t done anything creepy, so that rules out the majority

Yea, just be careful. No addresses or last names etc.

Yep. We both use the basic common sense. The closest to that is that we both have first names (fairly common ones, at that) and we know the general area of the country we live in. But it’s mutual, so she can’t hurt me any more than I can hurt her. Good night, I’m headed off now.

You aren’t stupid, you know what you’re doing

But I trust your judgement