okay so when i first came out to my parents, they immediately just started asking about what procedures i wanted to take, and tried to make a plan for me already. and when i came out at school, my english teachers already started to try and change my name on all the school systems and stuff and i just feel like i HAVE to be going at this fast pace and im not allowed to slow down and I just really can't keep up with this and i just want everything to SLOW THE F**K DOWN but im too scared to ask anyone to stop putting so much pressure on me