SHESTRAIGHTENS HER HAIR EVERY OTHER MONTH SHE DYES HER HAIR EVERY MONTH TO THE POINT WHERE I DIDNT EVEN KNOW HER REAL HAIR COLOR

U G H - I SWEAR; I REALLY JUST WANNA DYE AND STRAIGHTEN MY HAIR, BUT MY MOM ACTS LIKE MY HAIR BELONGS TO HER, AND EVEN PUTTING THE SLIGHTEST ANYTHING ON IT WILL AUTOMATICALLY DESTROY IT FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. SHE WONT CUT IT THE WAY I WANT IT CUT, SHE CHANGES MY HAIR STYLE WITHOUT EVEN ASKING ME FIRST, AND THE ONLY "PRODUCT" IM ALLOWED TO USE IN IT IS CONDITIONER. AND SHE IGNORES THE FACT SHE STRAIGHTENED MY HAIR WHEN I WAS 5-6 AND IT DIDNT HURT MY HAIR OR ANYTHING