I think I’ll be fine. There isn’t that much I don’t know about myself, I’ll figure it out within the next few years. It’s like ordering frozen yogurt. You spend an hour trying to finally pick one and then realize toppings still exist. I’ll just tweak it as I go.
Exactly. Pan means that gender just doesn't matter. You can still have other preferences like personality, hair style,... but gender or even biological features like chest, genitals, etc. are unimportant.
Yeah. And most pans can/will likely be attracted to primary or secondary s*x characteristics, they just wouldn’t care about gender. In my case, the attraction can be enhanced by them, but they aren’t where I get my attraction.
Well, I am attracted to primary and secondary sex characteristics... But I really don't care which combination a person happens to have. And for romantic attraction they just don't matter at all.
NEW LABEL THAT FITS ME!
I’M SO EXCITED!
IT’S CALLED IDISEXUAL, AND IT MEANS YOU’RE TURNED ON/EXPERIENCE SEXUAL ATTRACTION MORE FROM THINGS LIKE HAIR COLOR/STYLE, PERSONALITY, ETC. THEN FROM CHARACTERISTICS LIKE CHEST, REAR, AND WHAT’S BETWEEN THEIR LEGS.
