You read a lot of religious material do you? Grace, forgiveness and acceptance without judgement are the teachings of Jesus. Believing in Jesus' teachings defines Christianity. If Jesus didn't say it himself (according to his words in Matthew, Mark, Luke and John) the it is not his teachings. He NEVER condemned homosexuality. He never spoke of sex beyond teaching if you make a commitment to someone, don't break that commitment. Everything attributed to Jesus is an interpretation made by someone else. Read His words only and decide for yourself. Block out all the other noise.