Internalized homophobia is a thing you know. I'm not targeting you specifically, but the idea that someone can't be homophobic or transphobic because they're in the community is ridiculous
Im not a snowflake, i just get annoyed when people make the same jokes over and over making fun of trans people for wanting you to respect their pronouns. Like most if not all trans people will respectively ask you to use their pronouns, but then when you keep misgendering them on purpose is when they freak out as you describe it
But me being myself i give no f**ks what you want or what you want me to call you im going to call you what i best know you as if i know you as you were trans im gonna call you your pronouns if i known you before you were trans im going to call you whatever the f**k you were before you were trans.
because im not going to literally study and adapt to what ever the f**k is going on in your life im gonna call you what i call you and move on... get mad or get glad.
So you'd rather risk other peoples mental health just for whatevers more convenient for you? And invalidate other people just because you dont wanna change one word that comes out of your mouth?