Talking to women is easy; don't attach significance to it, don't hinge your life on it, just do it -talk to them the way you would a guy (going out on a limb here and assuming you're a dude). Women are people and if you approach them from a predatory, seductory standpoint, you'll invariably end up with the woman you can seduce but not necessarily the woman you like as a person. Be nice, be kind, but, most importantly, be yourself. Life is life and you'll likely get your heart stomped on at least once....but good matches tend to find each other. Sooooo....be patient and don't be a wall-flower; engage, communicate and don't keep any secrets that won't get you put in jail.