If you're constantly saying "It's not an insult", Then act like it.

why do straight boys say everything's gay like how do u know r u the gay one here

some people literally say that liking strong women (as a man) is gay

Probably don't know the meaning

How should i act like it's not an insult? Just wondering

Since i did meet someone who DOES think its an insult

Well, Is it an insult?

I think not

There ya go, Problem solved.

Well that was ez

It depends on the context. If you’re calling someone gay because they’re actually gay and it’s a relevant situation, or if you’re coming out yourself, or speaking on LGBT+ issues, etc. then no, but if you’re calling someone gay because it’s a *slightly* better insult than a “your mom” joke, then it is an insult. In other words, it’s not supposed to be an insult, but some people have taken it to be.

I've seen someone call me a "cupcake"
All I said was "Thank you?", Clearly they're not the best at making insults, So it's not offensive, Don't get offended, problem solved.

True, I was just answering your question

There ya go

I just throw my hands up in the air and say it isnt

lmao