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Should I actually confront him about this or should I leave it

Should I actually confront him about this or should I leave it | I know this stream is meant for therapy but I need help. A classmate has been harrasing my female classmates and does not stop after multiple confrontations from the victims. The victims are nervous and scared and too hesitant to ask their parents for help and I have no contacts with them so I feel like I should step in and confront him because I know I wont be a victim because he doesnt go after females that are too masculine so he wont target me but should I actually confront him? | image tagged in quiet kid | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
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0 ups, 3y,
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Hi The-Quiet-Kid

Does her teachers know what has been happening?
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No, I dont know their classes and I've only talked to the victims a few times about the problems and maybe I can encourage then to ask the professors but they may be scared to ask them too
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OK. I would inform your teachers to let them know what's going on. It would be hard to find the victim but it may not be so with the bully. I don't know the social ramifications of that act, but someone of official standing should know something about this.

With that in mind I would say yes, confront him; and if you want to, do so loudly so everyone can hear you. Or, do it with people around to watch. Either one will allow you to have witnesses in case he wants to do violence.

I would let your teacher know so that you also have a person of officiality backing you if anything happens.
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Thank you, your advice is really helpful so it's nice to know that I can give him a taste of defeat, I'll ask the victim for their main or preferred professor and inform them and I'll find the harasser and confront with one of the victims
0 ups, 3y
You're welcome, and your plan sounds like a good one. :)
0 ups, 3y
Go for it man.
0 ups, 3y
you need to stand up. call them out. bullies are just cowards who pick on people they think are lesser than them. but sometimes they act out because of their own problems outside of school.
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Hey The-Quiet-Kid

I'd say, try and get them to ask a professor. Maybe, if you decide to step in and tell him to stop, then he might stop, but I'm not sure. If you feel like you can confront him then go for it :)
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Hello The-Quiet-kid

If you feel like this is a problem that you need to interfere with, you should confront him.
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I know this stream is meant for therapy but I need help. A classmate has been harrasing my female classmates and does not stop after multiple confrontations from the victims. The victims are nervous and scared and too hesitant to ask their parents for help and I have no contacts with them so I feel like I should step in and confront him because I know I wont be a victim because he doesnt go after females that are too masculine so he wont target me but should I actually confront him?