The Lord’s Love for Israel

Such a shame that the 10,000 infants who died in agony from Malaria today didn't deserve gods love

Such a shame that you fail to see God's LOVE. Have you read His Word (the Bible)? If so, you would know that everyone has inherited a sinful nature from our forefather Adam. Therefore, no one deserves God's love. "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8 NIV) As for infants, check out the following: Do babies and children go to heaven when they die? https://www.gotquestions.org/do-babies-go-to-heaven.html

You just described an incredibly abusive relationship. Would you accept it if the government arrested you and told you that you were guilty for a crime your ancestor committed thousands of years ago? No you wouldn't, so why accept such mindless, sociopathic behavior from you god?

I accept God's Word as truth. It describes Him as the creator of all things. It says that He is loving, just and holy. If you can't see that God wants a loving relationship with you, then I'm afraid you will never have a relationship with Him- He will not force you into one. The choice is yours and I hope and pray you make the right one.

You can't even explain why you tolerate that kind of behavior, so I don't see why I should.

I'm telling you that the Bible says that we are all doomed to die because of Adams sin which is transmitted to all his ancestors. That's why there is physical death. But we are also spiritual beings and our spirits died, too. When you die your spirit will depart from your body and enter hell or the presence of God. Do you think the people in hell are going to ask one another why they tolerate that kind of behavior? There, there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
We all deserve that kind of behavior because God's Holy nature cannot tolerate sin.

JPS Tanakh 1917
Say unto them: As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live; turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel? (Ezekiel 33:11)
New American Standard Bible
The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not willing for any to perish, but for all to come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9)