what? when I was younger I had a system. 0-10 hot scale was based on guys in a bar willing to have sex with her; 2 guys were gay. 0-10 on the communication scale was the square root of a daily conversation. So, a 36 minute conversation a day is a 6. ~6 + ~6 is a hard 12, and you can't hope for more. I'm a 4-8 plus a 4-8 looking for a 10 or better.