What are you confused about here?
You offer a band-aid designed to not be obvious on white skin to a kid with brown skin and they are supposed to shut the f**k up about it in case they hurt your fragile feelings?
Oh no, poor you having society cater to you your whole life and now people are annoyingly making you aware that maybe you are equal to others and not actually superior
Your poor ego!
I guess you better accuse the people that are pushing fairness of being fragile before someone notices you are.
Better yet, YOU could accuse the people pushing racial equality of racism.
It doesn't matter that it makes no sense.
Hell! Accuse THE BAND AIDS OF RACISM, everything is their fault, right?
While they are trying to figure out what the hell you are talking about you'll feel like you've stalled for time and you can come up with a better plan and avoid having to actually treat people with decency or anything; I'm sure you'll figure something out.