Sex pertains to the sexual organs with which one is born while gender is the psychological identification one feels about himself or herself. "I may have a p**is, but I feel like a woman," or, "I have a va**na, but I feel like a man." Let's look at it this way: If an intersexed (hermaphrodite) person--one who is born with both male and female reproductive organs--lives as a male or a female, is one of these classifications wrong? Of course not. This person is who and what they feel they are. In this wise, the person born with just a p**is or just a va**na can have the same disposition. Remember: A clitoris is an unformed p**is. Mull this over and get back to me.