I'm sorry for your loss. This happened to me as well before. One of my friends turned out to be SUPER homophobic, but I still hang out with him (I don't know why). But if we don't talk about it, it's never been a problem. But then he found out I was Nonbinary and said "I dOnT wAnT tO bE Freinds wItH an *insert r-word here*. So, yea. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. Just saying.