MASHA GESSEN, NONBINARY AND TRANS ACTIVIST; FIGHTING FOR GAY MARRIAGE GENERALLY INVOLVES LYING ABOUT WHAT WE ARE GOING TO DO WITH MARRIAGE WHEN WE GET THERE; BECAUSE WE LIE THAT THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE, AND THAT IS A LIE. THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE IS GOING TO CHANGE, AND IT SHOULD CHANGE. AND AGAIN, I DON'T THINK IT SHOULD EXIST.
