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In those videos, they also generally recollect how they came to believe the lie that feminism is some 'great thing', and it's genuinely disturbing when they go over the mental gymnastics they used to believe that lie for so long. It takes a lot more bravery to stand up against fellow cultists once you realize how ugly everything surrounding it really is than it does to wave its banner.
So, I'd suggest taking a step back and evaluating the world around you, disconnected from the loyalty to your cult. If you are honest with yourself, you're going to see that you have all the rights that any man has, as well as just as many opportunities - In fact, with 'diversity hiring' and all the other things we are doing to snap things in 'the other direction', you have more opportunities and rights than any man you claim to be 'oppressing you'. I know if/when whoevers pulling Biden's strings starts a war with Russia over oil, it's not going to be women that recieve the letter saying they can choose between prison or being bullet-fodder for the military machine. And that's just a couple of MANY advantages you have.
But, getting back on-track, the second thing that I was going to point out is that the cult of feminism, something you apparently support, is the ONE entity that is responsible for a vast, vast majority of cyberbullying, and targeted harassment - Feminism IS cancel culture. Keep that in mind when you're talking about how great it is. So, when you point the finger to call someone a cyberbully while waving the banner of the biggest organized group of cyberbullies the world has ever known, it comes off as a whee bit hypocritical, and shows off a very significant lack of self-awareness.
Anywho, that all is a lot of very good reasons for reasonable people to have a distaste for modern feminism and feminists. If you are a halfway decent human-being, I'd suggest doing that whole 'take a step back and evaluate' thing, and hopefully distance yourself from that cult. But, most people are in that cult because they're not as good of human-beings as they'd like to believe they are, and they like that it gives them an arbitrary excuse to be awful to others at anytime. So, the odds are that you're right at home there, but on the off-chance you're actually a good person, I'd move onto better things.
And that's about that, methinks - Don't say nobody ever broke it all down for you when you realize all this way down the road.
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