If people don't want to pay $20 for your contraception then they don't want to pay $500 for your kid.
If they act like an adult and in accordance to the situation and then this problem wouldn't occur.
Either use multiple forms of contraception, get sterilised or don't have sex. Very simple.
34 and I have exactly 2 children that were planned. Wanna take a wild guess why I don't have 50 running around spanning 15 years?..