Honest question

You should just wait to see if they change

Thanks. How long do you think is enough?

Not sure, It depends on them, It could take months, Years, But who knows, Maybe just a few days

There are lines between the two. Very clear lines. Not all lbgtq+ people have to have similar or the same happy supporting mindsets or fit in the stereotypes. Though if you really want to upgrade your gaydar (gay radar) then you might wanna ask them about it to see if they are really passionate and sure of their sexuality and/or gender. Though some people are influenced that they are in the community just because they are so invested in it but its unlikely.

Seeing as I am forced to be with them a lot and they can for unrelated reasons get extremely angry I won’t ask them. Thanks for the advice though

No prob