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You don't need to change who you are for people to "not be mad at you"... if they can't accept who you are, then they will just have to get over it because you are who you are, and you like who you like

I just want to make people happy, though. If I'm straight, then I know the LGBTQ+ community won't be mad, and neither will anyone else. It's a win-win. Everyone else is happy and I'm happy because everyone else is hapoy.

But then you aren't being who you're meant to be... who you're supposed to be. Worry about making yourself happy, and the others come next in this situation

The only thing that makes me happy is making other people happy. I don't care if I'm not who I'm supposed to be. I just want to be happy and make other people happy. But then if I do that, then I'm going to make you mad.

You aren't making me mad! I want what is best for you, and you can't change the fact that you aren't straight. I know how hard it is to try and keep everyone happy all the time, but then you yourself become unhappy

Presenting TedTalk 2.0:

I don't become unhappy if everyone else is happy. And sometimes it is a little hard to keep everyone happy. But that just makes me try even harder to make others happy. Now I just can't make everyone happy, so I don't know what to do.

About a month ago, I had an argument with my best friend (he's an online friend). That was the last time he was online. Since I realized I made him go offline, all I've wanted to do is make people happy. When I can't make people happy, I think of him looking down at me from my version of heaven I guess since I'm not Christian. I tell him how sorry I am about not making things better and not taking him for granted. It's like I know when he's listening in on my life. I try to have a conversation with him (it's like one of those fake conversations that you have in the shower at first, but then it starts to feel like I'm actually talking to him), but sometimes he's not there (not in a bad way, just like a "hey I gotta go pick up some groceries" type thing).

But how do you plan on "becoming straight"? Or are you just going to be closeted forever?

I don't know. I guess I'm just going to try to have a conversation with Trey (my best friend). If he's not there, then oh well. You get what you get and you don't throw a fit.

Ok... I just hope you figure it out and if you need to talk, I'm here. I am a bisexual as well actually

Ok. Thank you. Have a good 2021 and beyond.

You, too!

Buddy, Here's a tip, "No matter what it is. Someone hates it and someone loves it"
You don't have to care what other people think, Be yourself, They just have to deal with it.

I think you should just be who you are- there's no denying love. People won't be mad at you for being the way you are