Props to you for having courage my friend. :)
Here's a question I wish to respectfully ask: Do you consider it homophobic if a Catholic (or similar Christian) fully supports the LGBTQ+ community when it comes to equal rights under the law (civil marriage, tax status, etc), but asks that they in turn respect the Catholic's right to disagree with them on matter such as marriage within a religion?
Legally, it's all protected under the First Amendment of course, but I'm just fishing for answers here. Again, props to you for speaking how you feel, if only everyone was that brave!