My dad said he wouldn't pay for my wedding if I married a woman XD... If they're gonna like hate you I'd just stay in the closet until you're olser

Wait, Random question, In a lesbian wedding, Which father pays for the wedding?

Damn good question...

I payed in my daughter wedding, Does this mean I didn't had too?
Or do the fathers have to share the bill?

I think they might share? I'll do some research on it.

Hmm

Okay, I made a call to my daughter-in-law's parents and they said that they shared the bill, They paid for the vendors and food, While I payed for the attire and location & transports, Sounds pretty fair if you ask me!

I looked it up a bit, Looks like there's many ways to pay for lesbian wedding,
The common ones are:
1. Play for the whole thing yourself
2. Share between parents

Ohhhhh, okay, that makes sense! Thanks

Ok ;-;

But if you need to... Tell someone you know is accepting that is in your family or close with your family so you can have some comfort and help

My aunt is bi to

Do you think I should tell her first?

Yeah that'd probably be good

Ok thanks

No problem. I love ya and I hope everything goes well <3

are ur parents homophobic?

No my mom isn't but my dad is

tell ur mom first.. its good having one whos not homophobic

Ok thank you

np, do it over email or text ..

Ok tysm

np :)

Honestly tell your mom first then tell your dad that would end up better for you. If you want to stay connected with your family you do that. If want to disconnect rather than talk it out then you don't tell them and wait for the time to come and just avoid them. So I dunno

Tysm

yeah no problem gl

Tell your mom and only your mom not your dad

Tell your mom first for sure. Slowly hint to your dad that ur not straight. But don’t make it completely obvious. Or just don’t tell your dad at all. That wouldn’t be the smartest tho because you would have to live to be someone your not around your dad...or honestly tell him to suck it up and that you can be who you wanna be. You can be bold or play it safe!

Thank you so much

I agree with your dad

That’s frickn mean.

I don't frickn care

If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.

Why don’t you.

I'm trying to get hell and all of these Amazing people are helping me why are you so rude and mean

Help*

Uh- no like both sexualatys and I choose to be bi if you have a problem with that then see my friends on this stream for details

Oh dear...

I’ve only told my sister I’m bi because my parents are major homophobes. They’re the type that uses the Bible to say it’s unholy.

Well I’m glad your being yourself. Make sure you have a good support system

When I leave they’re house I’m going to tell them but I’m waiting right now cuz I’m scared of what they’ll do

I was questioning for a long time (during quarantine actually) and I told my parents about this gay character in my book and they said that if I was gay or bi or anything they would accept it but I would just like to say that if you’re dad is a homophobe and your mom isnt she will defend you against your dad if he beats you or tries to disown you she could easily divorce his butt so be confident and tell your mom and if she is accepting that Is all you need

Sorry for it being so long it’s just I am very fond on this topic as I am the advisor in my friend group

bro u and me both

We in this together then

You could tell a family member that is really close to you if it makes you more comfortable that somebody knows.

Tysm

yw