Going for it.
Yeah it sucks what they went through and they didn't have sex education, or at least some kind of real sex ed, because it was banned under Mao. I literally told them about oral herpes in middle school when I had sex ed.. but I think there's hope to educate/change their perspective
Also, I was thinking- It'll be hella confusing for them when I marry my "best friend" one day, hopefully๐ฅฐ