HOW TO OVERCOME THE EGO AND INTEGRATE THE SELVES? BY ENJOYING SERVICE... WHEN ENJOYING SERVICE ONE DOES NOT REQUIRE ANY OTHER TYPE OF ENJOYMENT, BECAUSE ONE ENJOYS THINKING OF THE OTHERS. ONE IS NO LONGER THE MAIN ACTOR, NOT EVEN AS A SUPPORTING ACTOR. ONE ENJOYS GIVING. AND IT DOESN'T MEAN TO BE DEPRIVED OF ONE'S OWN ENJOYMENT. A SPIRIT OF LIGHT ENJOYS DEBATING. AND THIS IS NOT EGO; ELECTRIFYING CORAL REEF DREAMS