Heres what you can do:
1. if things are to bad, call CPS or 911, if she is abusing you and shit.
2. explain to her that the LGBTQ community is valid, and how it matters to you.
3. tell her (if its becuz of relijon) that its not a curse, it is who you are. and that cant be changed.
4. if she starts to insult you, insult her back. being passive wont help.
5. if she goes in to slap you, defend urself. dont hit back. scenario: she raises her hand, and you raise your hand to block. learn those techniques.
6. tell someone who you know for sure will accept and stand by you. that way when you have a talk with ur mom, you can have that person by ur side. if you dont have a person like that, just try to be confidant.
7. explain to her what being polysexual IS.make her understand your identity.
8. ASK HER WHY SHE DOESNT LIKE THAT YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE. DOES SHE HAVE ANY VAILD REASONING?