AVOID flame wars?
How adorable, you want to piss on someone's leg then run before the see you.
Here's some advice, and this one's free: Don't like the fire? Don't light any matches, DONE.
If you're gonna yap about someone/something, then at least have the decency and self-respect to look 'em in the eye and take what you asked for.
It you can't handle it, then crawl back into the crib and wait till that nutsack becomes something more than an undefined nodule.