Been there actually, it's tough and I'm not gonna lie. So instead of thinking about how it would be, I'll share how it was. We first sought help after a few months of trying to conceive, and it was determined that my wife had some issues that would make things pretty tough. I never even considered that I too would have issues, but on recommendation from the doctor I went and got checked as well. Got a bombshell that I too had significant obstacles in place in order to conceive naturally. So, after trying for months with different treatments and hormone replacements and supplements, we were told that our options were either invitro fertilization or adoption. We were called to adopt, and that's exactly what we did. This is a very short version, but the experience was fraught with extremes of every emotion known to man. Anyone who has to navigate through that experience has both my sympathy as well as my support. Talking through that stuff is terribly difficult, so I'm always willing to help others find their way if I can.