Exactly. It is a personality attraction. Here are some reasons I believe it is paraphilia also:
A) it is not the evolutionary form of procreativity. Most Men have p***ses and women have v****as. There’s a reason why. This is the definition of paraphilia that came up for me:
A psychosexual disorder in which sexual gratification is obtained through practices or fantasies involving a bizarre, deviant, or highly unusual source of sexual arousal such as an animal or an object.
Though homosexuality is not necessarily “bizarre”, it defies that of evolutionary procreation, which is the intended purpose of sex as a whole
B) those with paraphilia are unjustly prejudiced upon. There is no doubting that the LGBTQ community is very prejudiced.
Now, just to clarify, not everyone disorders are unhappy. For example, congenital analgesia is a disorder in which a person cannot feel pain. While that can often be a gift, it is undoubtedly a disorder, because the human body is programmed to feel pain.
Now, I would like to thank you for being kind. Everybody I talk to about LGBTQ throws me in the garbage even though I’m trying to support them. Genuinely, thank you. You have earned my respect and follow. If only others would do the same..
And, also, I have Depression and Anxiety, as well as [Some] Bisexual Tendencies, so I am not using the term “disorder” in any derogatory fashion :)
