We can present however the f**k we want, we're not some "embarrassment" just because we don't look how we want you to look. Can you wrap your ape brain around that? <3
A lot of trans people CAN'T present as masc/fem due to transphobia/ not being out. It's not their fault for that, and that doesn't mean being misgendered hurts any less. I didn't think I'd need to explain this to you
Your inability to pass as the gender you identify as is a YOU problem; not anyone else’s fault.
I had a coworker who identified as a woman, but didn’t present as a female in any way whatsoever, and had more facial hair than I do.
Do you think this person should be treated as a woman in every manner based solely on self-identification? Should this person be allowed in the women’s restroom or locker room? Should beauticians who only give waxing services to women with vulvas be forced to wax this person’s balls?
No, I don't think she should be treated as a woman in every way, she doesn't have the body for that. That doesn't mean she's not a woman though, and it seems like it's not so much inability for her, but more of a choice
Opening up TikTok; ...AND THE FEATURED TIKTOK IS SOME POORLY-PASSING TRANSGENDER "GUY" CRYING ABOUT BEING MISGENDERED; YOU'RE AN EMBARRASSMENT TO YOUR PEOPLE