Well, sometimes people have to get tough before others will listen. Is it ideal? No. And, besides, have you ever heard the phrase, "hate the sin, not the sinner"? That pretty much sums up the Christian standpoint on LGBT lifestyles.
I do hate to disappoint you, but sin is sin, no matter how much love you try to cover it with.
Peace... at the expense of morality. You're throwing your pearls before swine.
Please don't think I'm hating on you as a person. I just don't want you to fall into a trap that all too many have already been ensnared by.