Anonymous usernames obscure this fact, but it’s one we should keep in mind. Go onto the face reveal stream and browse for awhile and you’ll gain an even better sense.
These are the memers we are talking about here.
13 year olds, 16 year olds: Whatever they are, they’re not fully-formed human beings yet. Mentally and certainly emotionally.
For someone twice or three times that person’s age to attack them as if they were is just not seemly.
You will both look better and be more effective by approaching the situation from a standpoint of mentorship.