If u have abusive step parents you need to tell someone like a teacher at your school, you aren't stuck with those horrible parents you need to find somebody or u need to go and get yourself your own place to stay far away from those horrid people. Also I know you said for people not to wish you a happy birthday but happy birthday but if you want to get out of a hole you need to put down the shovel so happy birthday. If you need help I'm here for u.