I'm not a huge fan of #2 myself, but I do appreciate #1 and #3, and yeah all of this is personal preference and expression.

I usually feel when people use the word "men" that doesn't include me... Is it because people who generalize men always mean a certain type of "man" or because I'm just different from most "men"? 🤔

I think they’re just generalizing men.

Men who like women who look like this are just as common as women who want to look like this.

In my totally unscientific opinion, lol