You need to understand some of the mean comments and their anti-begging memes are just another version of upvote begging. "see I hate them too! please upvote my hate!"
I dislike the blatant upvote mine and i'll upvote yours crap that hits here now and then, but there is plenty of other meme types I dislike. (hence the adulthumoronly stream I started) There use to be common courtesy rules here and top memers would gently push the new members to learn them, but that too has for the most part gone away. Kinda sad actually.