We killed two to one the 1st round this time the gloves will come off

And yet you still lost

*I realize it had more to do with the industrialization in manufacturing,in which the south was at a severe disadvantage.

No, you're absolutely correct: the highest desertion rates any army has seen in United States history was the confederate army. Their cause was not supported by the morale of their own men at all.

Neo-confederates don't like that historical nugget of information because it disrupts their Lost Cause narrative.