And some people never get a chance to learn.

How can I upvote this but the view count doesn't go up?

Who or what is to blame for the bad attitude toward sex and what is the solution?

You pose a really fundamental question that I’m not sure I know the answer to...

The short answer is: I don’t know.

I'll share my theory. But when i have time to elaborate. Taking care of 4 kids and a husband down with the flu now. 🤢

I think religion plays a large part in it, but it can go both ways. Growing up in a strict religious household can either shape one to be an insufferable prude or a complete nymphomaniac. My ex and I grew up in the same religion and she never wanted anything but vanilla sex. She didn't mind oral as long as she was receiving it. Some experimentation left her feeling dirty so we never tried anything. We got married young so I never experienced other women. All I know is growing up, I was so horny all the time. I wanted to f**k anyone. You couldn't hang around the opposite sex without a microscopic eye watching all the time. Hanging around same sex proved easier. Definitely not gay but I did play around with it. Just open minded.

Anyway, fast forward 15 years and I'm divorced from my wife. I did have a friend with benefits but I didn't like that mentality of just f**king and leaving. And she was catching feelings.

Now I'm married again, very happily. I don't know how I got so lucky in finding this one. Sex is amazing when you truly love that person. I had discovered I can have another full orgasm right after the one I had with her, a two minute time span. Never had that before. It's more than just sex though, it's that connection. It's amazing.

I'm conclusion, nothing has changed. I'm still a horny f**ker, I just have really good sex now. I go as far as she lets me. 😂

Awesome story. Thanks so much for sharing. Really captures the messiness of sex in life. We’re all influenced by different aspects of our upbringing and are just trying to figure it out.

I'm just glad my current wife indulges me in salad tossing. First time I tried it on her she was very hesitant, never had it done before. She doesn't mind it now. I like doing it. Makes me harder than a hickory stump...