Lonely

Alright bud, I know where you're coming from, and I know what you're looking for in a girl based on some previous stuff I've seen you post so I'm gonna try to help you out, if you would accept a little constructive criticism.

First off, yes I'm sure there is a girl out there for you. Second, if I can offer a little insight as to how I met my wife and my approach to dating. I prayed every night for at least 5 to 10 years to meet the right one, and I trusted that when it was right God would send her to me. I did not meet my wife till I was 22 years old, and we dated for 3 years before getting married. I still prayed that prayer the entire time we dated. When I met her we went on a couple of casual dates, and when it came time to make it official I actually backed out like an idiot because I was too busy with my school, and I eventually said you know what, I've been praying for this for years now, and I just shooed her away. Luckily she took me back and we've been happily married for almost 10 years. So, pray for her to come, be patient, and don't close your eyes because you may miss her like I almost did.

Third, I know what standards you have. You're looking for a good Christian girl, you want to save all your firsts for her, and you want to marry once and have everything be a fairy tale ending. My advice here is, keep your standards but lower your expectations, and I don't mean that in a way that says you need to settle for something less. What I mean is, plan for things to not go the way you want them to, but rather the way God wants them to. That means you may end up with disappointment that your plan didn't go as well as you wanted, it may mean that you find love somewhere you didn't expect it. If you're looking for the perfect girl, remember that no one is perfect, and you're likely going to need to extend grace or forgiveness for past relationships. Us humans are messy, we end up in messy situations, our pasts are messy, and anytime you enter a relationship with someone else just know that they will have their mess and you will have to deal with it. Is my wife perfect? No. Am I perfect? Heck no. Are we perfect for each other? No doubt.

Fourth, don't ask her creepy questions about foot fetishes...at least not for a long time until that's appropriate :)

Hope this helps, I'm rootin for ya. Cheers bro.

Thank you like seriously thank you

anytime.

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how old are you?

Well how old are you

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Not that old id say before 1980

This post is beautiful Because of the great heart felt & transparent advice given . refreshing to read.

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Thanks

Thparky had some great advice. I met my wife when I started focusing more on Jesus, and becoming more active in my church. I wasn’t really looking for a girl at the time, just trying to get right with God. I almost missed it too cause I got “cold feet”. Sometimes you just gotta take a chance on love, and pray that she’s the one God has for you. I did, and twelve yrs. later we’re still going strong! Just gotta give it time. It sounds like you’re still young. I was 37 when we married, but met when I was 33. Oh, and btw, we’re total opposites! 😉

Thanks man means a lot

No prob. Stay positive!

I will

You’re welcome! 😃👍