You see:
If you look at the theory of Schrodinger's Cat, where if you don't observe the cat, it is both dead and not dead. So, if you don't observe a trap, you don't know if it has a peepee or not, therefore it is both gay and not gay at the same time. HOWEVER, if you go out of your way to see if the trap has a peepee or not, that would be kinda gay, since there is a chance you'll find one. Therefore, the TRUE gay ones are the people who try to confirm if the trap has a peepee or not, and if you DON'T seek to confirm it, you are NOT gay. So, it is not the trap who are gay themselves, but it is us, the observer, that determines if the trap is gay or not.
So that begs the question, was the trap gay? Or... Were we the gay ones all along...?
Summarized from the video: https://youtu.be/hlXsKkjJ42s