I started to watch the series but my husband wasn't too keen on it. I will dare guess it isn't half as scary as the novel though, as I have only seen one film that came close to the horror of the material it was based on. But The Haunting of Hill House indeed scared me more than any other work of fiction.. I think this is because of all the psychological tinkering Jackson did with her heroine via the interrelationship with the paranormal stuff going on around her. By the end of it I knew her entire story and had run through a gamut of emotions for and with her -sympathy, hatred, shame, desire, terror and abject loneliness. Very disturbing, absolutely unforgettable.
Like you, blood and gore is not scary to me. Just annoying.