Whatever makes you feel better about yourself, man. If you want to try to cram a super complex subject into a small and simple box, I can't stop you. However, if you're going to bring the DSM-5 into this, here's what the APA has to say about gender.
"Gender identity is a category of social identity and refers to an individual’s identification as male, female or, occasionally, some category other than male or female. It is one’s deeply held core sense of being male, female, some of both or neither, and does not always correspond to biological sex."
"Gender dysphoria as a general descriptive term refers to an individual’s discontent with the assigned gender. It is more specifically defined when used as a diagnosis."
"Gender dysphoria is not the same as gender nonconformity, which refers to behaviors not matching the gender norms or stereotypes of the gender assigned at birth. Examples of gender nonconformity (also referred to as gender expansiveness or gender creativity) include girls behaving and dressing in ways more socially expected of boys or occasional cross-dressing in adult men. Gender nonconformity is not a mental disorder. Gender dysphoria is also not the same being gay/lesbian."
If you're comfortable with how you present yourself, you don't have gender dysphoria - you are a gender nonconformist, which is not a mental disorder.
Find a different tactic than trying to use science. You're bad at it.