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It was my fault... I'm stupid I shouldn't have messaged back... They're creepy and now I want them to leave.... Because they won't shut up.... And I don't have the heart to tell them to shut up...

I had the same dilemma a few years back. I was being constantly harrased on social media and irl by someone I knew in school. What started of as a normal friendly relationship quickly turned into harrasment. Everyday I was bombarded with messages (where am I, what am I doing, who am I with, when can we meet)

She used to send me pictures of scars on her arms from where she had self harmed and told me that she had done so because I wasn't there for her ( bare in mind that this was not someone I even knew very well) if I didn't respond to her messages she would text my brother asking why I wasn't answering her.

I was always polite to her and maybe that was my problem. I explained the way she was making me feel but it did nothing to change her behaviour towards me. If someone won't leave you alone when you ask them to then block them and be finished. You don't owe them anything. You may feel a bad about it for awhile (I did) but ultimately it would be the best for both of you. Don't worry about hurting their feelings as they clearly don't care about yours.

That's rough, I know I've seen people do that. It's really sad when people use their own emotions to hurt others, and sending people pictures or them hurting themselves in definitely not okay. I'm really sorry you had to through that. ....and yeah I blocked them...so hopefully I don't feel that bad for that long

*off

They are obviously hurting your feelings so.....

That should be a famous quote on the internet. I mean I don't really know this person, I'm just afraid I'll hurt them somehow... And I don't want to hurt anyone.. You know?

Life sucks that way doesn't it....

Yip, Reality is faaaaaar more crueler to my ass! I come here for a laugh, back to work for me so i'll be off here for a stint. You concentrate on you eh

I have depression and am constant worrying that I've found another way to ruin things, even though I often do it on purpose because I'm afraid if any one gets too close they'll figure out who I actually am. This will in turn leave me volunerable and I'll have to find another wall to build, another berries that they'll have to break through. Most likely I'll have gotten rid of them by that time though, banished them to the back of my mind where ill never think about them again. And about worrying about myself, and thinking about myself, I prefer not to.... It will only make things worse....anyways I'm going to stop talking about that now. And I'm sorry about work responsibility actually is the worst thing ever. I'd much rather just sit on my phone all day

If you feel depressed then I am a meme/comment away, don't bottle it, I am sure you are aware that users on here give a shit about you and them who bully you...well I believe they are far more depressed than you have ever been:( so think of that next time you're getting attacked!! You seem like a lovely girl to me OK

OK, if you say so

I read through comments and it appears that you blocked them. DON'T feel bad. If someone makes you feel remotely uncomfortable you have every right to block them. This world is full of crazy people. Next thing you know they would have been trying to show up at your house or something. I understand feeling bad about blocking someone like that. And you feel that way because you are a sweet and considerate person. Don't let that be to your detriment. It's easy to allow the wrong people to keep up their antics just because you don't want to hurt someone or make an awkward situation. It is okay for you to set boundaries and enforce them. You did the right thing!

Yeah.. I think I did. I just wish the world could get rid of its creepers, I want actual friends not how old are you people

Oh yeah. That would irritate me. However, if it's an older guy maybe he asks so that he is sure he isn't messing with someone who is not of age. So as not to get into trouble. But when he would persist anyway that is especially creepy because he is likely looking for someone underage.

He asked me that, and then immediately followed it up with "sorry I like to ask random question" I asked him if he had anymore and he said no, but then kept talking to me, and asked me if I sucked my thumb.... So yuck, and wow no...

Well, yeah! That's a pervert for sure.

Yeah..... I run into lots of people like that . There's this one person today who told me they were jerking off while talking to new and we're friends in real life so I can't block them...

Uhh... yeah you can! Tell them you don't like that and you won't be messaging anymore. People will definitely do what they can get away with. Nothing wrong with demanding that they treat you with respect. They will learn that you won't allow them to do that sort of thing. I had a guy doing similar several years ago. I just had to tell him. I am not the one to me messaging with that sort of thing. He found someone else to message.

I tried... I told them to stop, and they said that they had to go, so just waiting to see if they'll ever message me again TBH I'm fine Wittgenstein not

Hopefully they took the hint. I recall life before the internet. So much less room for people to do nasty things. I mean, they could do it in person I guess, but not as likely.

Yeah. I used to be able to play a game called AFK but some dude kept talking about how he going to give it to me, and when I told him to stop he said something about imolestmyfamily.com or something like that, it was so gross and I lost that game and my actual friends on that game because elf him

Okay the age thing I understand. I like to know so I know how to talk to people. So if its q 40 year old adult I can talk like an adult. But if its a14 year old. I dont want to be adult with them.
I also like to know gender for future reference in conversation.

You can talk like an adult, I mean I like to think I'm more mature than most people my age [that's probably just my immaturity speaking though lol] and I'm a girl, I have told you this......

Yes I know I was just telling you

Okay, sorry..

That's okay

Just block them. It's never wrong to hurt a creeps feelings

But I'd feel so bad...

Dont. Just say no. If you feel bad then you probably aren't creeped out.
I will say you are waaaaay out of left field

No I'm curled out, but I think they're just really lonely and sad, and I'd feel like a jerk. And I don't what left field means so... I'm stupid

Left field means your off the beaten path

Off of it, there was never one for me to start on

Why are you so sad? 😥☹

Because I want to be...and hey I did it! I blocked them, I feel like a terrible person [probably because without am one] but hey I did it!

You go girl

To hell girl!

Seems you got it figured out and blocked them (good for you), but listen carefully darlin', anybody talks to you like that you have a very simple and basic right to tell them to politely FO. sorry, i do not typically swear, and even insinuating it is something i don't do much but in this case it applies. there is a special place in the bowels of prison that people like that belong. respect is something that every decent human being is owed, and if they don't offer it to you then they don't deserve a place in your life, or in this case in your thoughts so do not give them even half a second of time in your brain. if you can find a way to report them you should, get them blocked.

Sorry if this is too forward, ever since we got our baby girl my protective instinct on stuff like this is just through the roof!

I've picked up on this, but it seems you may have a problem with self-worth. Trust me when i say, you are a wonderful person and deserve nothing but the best in life. Don't put yourself in situations like this because you think it's the only attention you can get because you aren't worth better...you are worth better, I promise you that.

Hey thanks parky! It's true I do, but honestly you and others on this site help a lot, and that meant a lot to me [I'm almost crying tbh] and congrats on your baby girl!

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baby girl came two and a half years ago so she's not really a baby any more, but thanks anyway! i'm glad you've found some happiness here, it certainly brightens my day when i spend time on the site. there are a lot of good people here that i really enjoy talking to. any time you need to talk through anything like this just message me or one of the others here, especially the ones in this particular comment section, they are all really good people that genuinely care for others.

Yeah I will, thanks again😊