I can't get behind the big is beautiful thing. It is terribly unhealthy. I will add skin and bones is also very unattractive to me. I think it's better in all respects to hit a good middle ground. Plenty of meat on the bones, but not too much.
That aside, being attractive is not something I have ever been able to do. I don't even strive for looking attractive anymore. I know better. Sounds bad I guess but I am also honest about feeling this way. Not even sure I care if I am ever attractive again to another living soul. I'm just tired.