Sorry to hear that. One of the first things that struck me strange about life was how often relatives die near Christmas. For esp old people, I think the weather & all is too much. Honestly, i would except no blame nor guilt over this comix at all. It is not about indiv tragedy at all....it is about anti-Christmas A-holes. We ALL have had tragedy at many times of the yr. That being said, it is even more important to celebrate& commiserate. Christmas is a time to give thanks & love our dearly departed & even MORE important those we still have & enjoy the time we have left.