First it's not a "disease" in the sense that HIV of deafness is not a disease, - but it is a medical pathology. First-and-a-half, you still didn't acknowledge you were wrong about Gandhi. He was not an advanced medical expert, but he was qualified enough to observe aggregate effects for himself - and he did say that.
Second, there has been an extremely powerful, well-financed, and real suppression of the truth - exactly as there once used to be a suppression of the truth we take for granted today regarding the ills of tobacco. It used to be argued it was all subjective and against the received medicine. Till the reality could no longer be suppressed by the entities specifically trying to legally protect themselves from the liabilities they were perfectly well aware of all along for years. The pendulum finally swung - but it didn't happen overnight.
Third, the explosion of ASDs is real - and statistically now on an exponential increase. Used to be about a 1 in 10,000 sort of thing, now approaching 1 in 10, and in our lifetimes probably heading for close to 50%, I sh*t you not.
Fourth, you oversimplify the tradeoff. The whole either-or is a scare-tactic false dichotomy here fabricated by the industry to keep people from investigating and thinking for themselves. Suppose I asked you to practice real science instead of dogma and watch Vaxxed for yourself, where you could watch real, competent, knowledgeable MD's discuss the specifics of how vaccines could be done sanely and rationally without threatening herd immunities or anything like that, and how that sanity and rationality are suppressed. Suddenly poof goes your whole stereotype of "antivaxxers" as a bunch of illiterate, ignorant hicks - and you suddenly have an uncomfortable ethical responsibility to learn and open your eyes to the lies yourself about those about whom you repeated them.
Discomforting? Sure Alarming? For some, yes. But necessary for those who seek the truth in a society in which that is far scarcer than people realize? Absolutely.
Easy to get on Netflix. See for yourself just how precious little the emperor is wearing.
There's no substitute for thinking for yourself. None.
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