WHY DO PEOPLE THINK IT IS OK TO CALL A BABY HE OR SHE? THEY CAN'T SPEAK YET SO THEY CAN'T SAY THEIR PREFERRED GENDER. INSTEAD REFER TO THEM AS BABYSELF OR TODDLERSELF UNTIL THEY CAN TELL YOU THEIR PRONOUN PREFERENCE. OTHERWISE, YOU ARE ABLEIST AND TRANSPHOBIC; WELL THERE IT IS; THE STUPIDEST THING I HAVE HEARD TODAY.