Yeah everyone is always skeptical when someone deletes, then comes back. After Chad deleted someone came back claiming to be him, and whoever it was did a great job of acting like him. But I texted Chad and he said it wasn't him, and then whoever it was deleted the profile. Anyway, if indeed is it you I'm glad you're back. Sorry to hear about your wife. My wife has chronic health problems that get worse over time, and at over the last few weeks she been really spiraling downward. For me this site is an escape and a stress reliever.