AND LIKE AN IDIOT, TO CURB MY PAIN, I ENTERED THE DATING SCENE RIGHT AFTER THE DIVORCE. BUMBLE. TINDER. PLENTY OF FISH. YOU NAME IT. TRYING TO FLEX THE MUSCLE THAT HADN’T BEEN FLEXED IN OVER A DECADE. BAD IDEA! WHAT I NEEDED WAS TIME. TIME TO HEAL. NO TAKERS.....BLAMES MEN